LinI miss you very much too.. But then these few days busy study for exams so din leave any msg for u.. Sounds that ur orientation was really fantastic but instead, some of them were too exaggerrating la..
Anyway, enjoy ur school reopens. MuackzZ.. Miss u..
I will be going bek dis thursday. Just chat with u this weekend ya..
Ling, ling... and one more thing.. seems that sheena got sum prb with her bf this time..
her bf jz sent her a msg last nite, saying tat should they break up awhile coz he felt tat he's like dating with himself all the time. He's the one who call her up, send her sms everytime.. So he felt that she doesnt need him actually so he would like to separate awhile to see whether she can really live on without him. Haih, i asked sheena to say sumthing but then she refused to call him neither said sorry.. she just replied "ohh.. maybe i was too busy.." She din cry, din complain but i knew that she cudnt even sleep well last night.
Last saturday nite, we had a long talk. Until now, 4 years being together, she din even let her parents know about their relationship. I asked her, her bf mind it? she said he din mention anything to her even once, about his feeling towards dis secretive relationship. I told her, it's time to tell her parents, I'm sure that the guy mind it alot but then he couldnt help anything because prb is on sheena's parents who dont like guys who dun hv proper education, and her parents knew the guy (all live in chaah, small town) and they did tell sheena tat they dun like him.
So sheena has been in dillemma all these while. But then when i asked her whether she would sacrifice for him or not, she said she cudnt.. coz she wouldnt wish to see her parents dissapointed of her since she's their only child. Then i asked her whether she could separate with her bf jz to fulfill her parent's will that they wan a better daughter-in-law, she said NO also. Coz she feels that being together with her bf has become a responsibility. He treats her well, so she bear not dump him aside jz because of her parents. Very "mao2 dun4" right? She added that she could never ever be apart with his bf, tat's wat she felt. I told her, Love someone is not a responsibility, watmore they both jz like oldies, which having love without surprises. Then how are they going to keep this relationship on??
I said, she really need to tell her parents this case but she chose to remain this situation. She wanna wait until her bf to achieve sumthing so that she could use this point to persuade her parents.. Isnt it silly? Where's the prb now? i'm also blur.. Can i say her stubborn? I tried to ask her to think of this matter from (x)'s point of view:
(a) her parents - wouldnt they feel more sad after they found out thier daughter has been in luv with that guy for more than a year?? Or ever since they knew that guy?
(b) her bf - maybe he doesnt wish to maintain this undergound relationship but then he knew that sheena wont even grant his wish by telling her parents so he choose to be silent??
(c) herself - perhaps she has to be selfish abit in this relationship to choose either one side?
The moment she said she felt that she couldnt separate with her bf d, i told her she's still young.. Only 19 years old.. She still got lots of chance.. There's plenty of guys out there who are much better than him, perhaps, for her to choose.. Why not she gives herself a chance?? Aiks, this girl, i really duno how to say anymore.. Overall, as a conclusion, she still wan to remain this kind of relationship.. Tired to talk about this la..
Gotta go back to the class now.. just continue this topic when i go bek lo.. Love u~!
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